THE GRIMACE HEARD ‘ROUND THE WORLD
The Queen of the s just reclaimed her throne and threw massive shade at the current Mrs. Tommy Lee in a moment that was practically audible. Pamela Anderson sat down with Andy Cohen on SiriusXM’s Radio Andy this Wednesday, and when the topic of Brittany Furlan came up, the vibe in the room went from zero to sub-zero instantly. While the rest of the world is grabbing popcorn to watch the train wreck that is Furlan’s current legal war with Ronnie Radke, Pam made it clear she views the whole situation as beneath her.
When Cohen started explaining the sordid details of the restraining order drama involving the Mötley Crüe drummer’s wife and the Falling in Reverse frontman, Anderson didn’t just listen politely. Witnesses say she “visibly grimaced” and looked away, a body language cue that screams “I cannot believe my ex married this mess.” It was a masterclass in silent judgment.
Anderson, , tried to play the diplomat, but her words were laced with venom. “I think this whole internet is too much access to people,” she told Cohen, essentially calling Furlan—a former Vine star who lives her life online—chronically online and overexposed. She followed it up with a dismissive, “But still, it is what it is. But that’s too bad.” Translation: This is embarrassing for the family legacy.
“Pam’s face said it all. She knows Brittany is dragging Tommy’s name through the mud with this Ronnie Radke nonsense. The cringe is real.”
This isn’t just an ex-wife being petty. This is Pamela Anderson watching the father of her children be dragged into a Gen Z-style internet feud involving Snapchats, catfishing allegations, and police reports. The “grimace” is the viral moment of the week, signaling that the tension between the original rock power couple and the new wife has hit a boiling point.
WEDDING WARFARE: IS BRITTANY BANNED?
If you thought the radio interview was awkward, wait until you hear about the upcoming family reunion. Anderson dropped a bombshell regarding her son Dylan Lee’s upcoming wedding that suggests a massive snub is in the works. When asked if she would see Tommy and Brittany at the nuptials, Pam’s answer was cryptic and chaotic.
“My son Dylan’s getting married soon, so I’ll see them at the wedding,” she started, before correcting herself with a line that has the gossip mill sprinting. “Or him at the wedding. We don’t know. I don’t know.”
Did you catch that? “Or HIM at the wedding.” Pamela Anderson just hinted that Brittany Furlan might not be on the guest list. Is the bride and groom banning their stepmom to avoid the drama? Or is Tommy Lee planning to fly solo to avoid a showdown between his past and his present? If Brittany is excluded from a major family milestone, it is a declaration of war.
Sources close to the family whisper that the tension is palpable. With Furlan currently embroiled in a humiliating legal battle that accuses her of “harassment,” the last thing anyone wants is for her to bring that circus to Dylan’s big day. Pamela’s hesitation speaks volumes. She clearly envisions a day where she can celebrate with her son and her ex-husband without the distraction of his -year-old wife’s internet beefs.
THE “UNHINGED” RESTRAINING ORDER SCANDAL
Let’s unpack the “bad” situation Pam was referring to, because “bad” doesn’t even begin to cover it. It is a full-blown dumpster fire. Us Weekly confirmed on January that rocker Ronnie Radke, , filed a restraining order against Brittany Furlan. His claims? That she “harassed” him on social media and literally showed up at his house. Yes, you read that right. Tommy Lee’s wife is being accused of stalking another musician.
Furlan’s team fired back immediately. Her attorney, Lou Shapiro, issued a statement claiming Furlan is the “only victim of harassment” here and threatened to take “all legal measures.” It is a classic “he said, she said,” but with restraining orders involved, the courts are now the referees.
Not one to be outdone, Furlan filed her own restraining order against Radke a week later. Court documents obtained by Page Six reveal Furlan’s side of the story, claiming Radke is “unhinged and obsessed” with her. She alleges he has been tormenting her, but the timeline she provided has exposed cracks in her own marriage that nobody saw coming.
SNAPCHAT SECRETS AND CHEATING RUMORS
Here is the juicy part that has Pamela Anderson grimacing and Tommy Lee likely smashing drywall. In Furlan’s own legal filing, she admitted that she and Radke started communicating via Snapchat in April . Why was a married woman secretly Snapping a rock star known for his bad-boy reputation?
Furlan claims she was going through a “rough patch” with Tommy Lee at the time. A rough patch? In ? Tommy Lee was busy screaming at “fake news” on Twitter in June , claiming they weren’t separated, but his wife’s court docs tell a different story. She admitted she agreed to meet up with Radke in May . While she says he never showed, the intent was there.
“She was Snapping him while married to Tommy? That is shady behavior. No wonder Pam is looking at her sideways.”
The story gets even weirder. Furlan initially claimed she was being “catfished” by an impersonator. Now? She has flipped the script, alleging it was Radke on fake accounts the whole time. It is a convoluted mess of digital deception, secret meet-ups, and marital discord. And poor Tommy Lee is caught in the middle, looking like he has lost control of his own household.
PAM WANTS HER MAN BACK?
While Brittany is busy fighting off allegations of harassment, Pamela Anderson is taking a trip down memory lane, and she sounds a little wistful. During the interview, she dropped some heavy hints that she blames Brittany for the wedge between her and Tommy. Anderson admitted she hasn’t spoken to the Mötley Crüe drummer in a “long time” and—get this—she “misses him.”
“I just think he’s a real romantic. He’s very dedicated to his wife and I think that he just doesn’t want to cause any waves,” Anderson said, painting Tommy as a henpecked husband afraid to upset his volatile partner. “I don’t like it.”
That is a direct shot. Pam is essentially saying, “He ignores me because she makes him.” She went on to say she wishes they had a better relationship, especially with grandkids in the picture. The subtext is screaming: If she wasn’t around, we would be a happy, blended rock royalty family.
Anderson and Lee share a legendary, tumultuous history. Married from to , they have two sons, Brandon () and Dylan (). Despite the divorces and the drama, Pam has always held a torch for the father of her children. Seeing him embroiled in this low-rent scandal with Furlan clearly hurts her soul.
TOMMY LEE SILENT AMIDST THE CHAOS
Where is Tommy Lee in all of this? The usually loud-mouthed drummer has gone radio silent regarding his wife’s restraining order war. His last public comment on the state of his marriage was a furious tweet in June : “Hey fake news, we’re not separated or divorced!! Get your s together!!”
But now that Furlan has admitted to the “rough patch” and the secret Snapchats in legal documents, Tommy’s defense looks a little shaky. Is he standing by his wife while she battles Ronnie Radke in court? Or is he quietly fuming behind the scenes, embarrassed that his personal life has become a tabloid punchline for the wrong reasons?
Both Radke and Furlan’s initial requests for restraining orders were denied, but the war isn’t over. A court date is set for January . You can bet Pamela Anderson will be watching—likely with that same grimace on her face—thankful she is not the one standing next to him in that courtroom.
THE CLIFFHANGER: JANUARY SHOWDOWN
The countdown is on. On January , Brittany Furlan and Ronnie Radke are due in court to hash out this toxic mess. Will new evidence of the “Snapchat affair” come to light? Will Tommy Lee show up to support his wife, or will he stay home and polish his drum kit to avoid the paparazzi?
And more importantly, will Brittany get that invite to Dylan’s wedding? Or will Pamela Anderson get her wish—a night with her boys and her ex-husband, without the “unhinged” drama of the current Mrs. Lee ruining the vibe? The Lee family saga is far from over, and it is getting messier by the minute.
